Desperate Divine Intervention needed.

[Cherokee]

I am Cherokee's Daughter and my name is Sis. Terry. My family has just been wiped out through a situation involving another woman and my husband. He has never had the Holy Ghost but our children and myself have lived for God all these years.
10 months ago he said he no longer loved me but would not give an explanation. For these long months we have suffered every pain imaginable not knowing why? We have all lived in the same house but under a terrible strain. this week it has come to a head and the other woman has been revealed and now we are going two seperate ways by his choice. We have been married 23 years.
Now I know others have gone through the same things but the pain is almost more than I can bear and I need all the strength I can at this moment because my heart is literally crushed and so are our children's and our 18 m/o grandaughter.
I just want the will of God to be done and I do not want to react in a way that will not glorify God but I am wrestling against all kind of emotions and physical sickness at this moment.
I do not know which way to go. Please pray for God to hold me and guide me to make the right decisions.
Thank You Terry Lee.

[nytxn1971]

I'm praying for you, Sis. Terry. God's a refuge! Take refuge in Him, sister!

[jbenjesus]

Originally posted by nytxn1971
I'm praying for you, Sis. Terry. God's a refuge! Take refuge in Him, sister! In agreement! I also pray God would comfort you through His body at this time.

[ddc101]

Amen Sis.Terry,
Do not think that this is the end.You must still love your husband as you are so devestated.Go to Walmart and buy the book The Power of A Praying Wife.Why should the enemy have something you want.Do not give up on him.Fight in the spirit.War in the spirit.Its not hopeless.Nothing is hopeless.First of all the balls in your court because you have children together.I am working with a lady who right now is going through the same thing after 29 years of marriage.I am telling you she is getting breakthroughs praying this book.Not only is he changing but she is changing also.Both needed to change.Sometimes people drift apart.And as with you in church and he not your priorities are different.Since he stayed this long he does have some love for you.Possibly this is a midlife crisis.Men have those as well as women.But I am here to tell you that adultry can be forgiven and forgotten as well.Depending on the choice you make as whether to start over or not your relationship with your husband needs redefining.As the years go by we all change and sometimes we need to redifine our relationships because our needs change.When we were very young married sex may have been given more of a priority.When you mature its quality time and words of encouragement etc.Go and get the book Five Love Languages.Your husband is just not a dirty dog sinner.He is the husband of your children.The enemy is fighting him and his flesh is fighting him.Be in his court.Be on his side spiritually.If by some means this relationship can never work out you still want him saved for your childrens sake.lv sis.c

[Mitzy_4God]

I feel for you because I have been going through something a lot similar, but a bit more serious. I will be praying for God's grace to touch your life and heart daily. God will come through and work move every mountain and stumbling block (the other woman) out of your way.

When we go through rough times, how we deal with trials is the key to deliverance. Pray and fast your way out.

In Jesus Name!

[Jillian]

Sister I will pray also..

My husband and I separated 14 yrs ago. He simply walked out one day and said he did not love me nor wanted to remain in the marriage. I had 2 small children.
I knew divorce was not what God intended. I knew children being in a broken home was not what he intended.

I went to the word and I studied , I studied scriptures on faith and marriage. I stood on the word and promises of God. This passage was my favorite.

Mar 11:22 And Jesus answering saith unto them, Have faith in God.
Mar 11:23 For verily I say unto you, That whosoever, shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever, he saith.
Mar 11:24 Therefore, I say unto you, What things soever, , ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.
Sister I was just silly enough to believe God , when everyone else (even christians) told me just get on with life..:-(

I am one who believes the word is the word. What he says he will do, he will do.

6 months later my husband came back home told me he loved me and we have NEVER went around that mountain again. It is removed.. Praise God, he is merciful.

Was it easy? No, I went through some sad times, but the Lord would always be there, he would meet me in prayer.

Sister I prayed specifically, i prayed God would turn his heart back to his family, I claimed him in Jesus name... I prayed God would break the chains of the enemy he was bound by. I prayed God would remove the confusion in his mind...etc. Sis I will pray the same for you. May the Lord let your faith grow tremendously in the days ahead.

btw we have a great marriage today, he is not saved yet but I will stand on that promise also. The Lord has changed him so much. He drinks, but he drinks at home and he is not abusive in any way . He would do anything today to make me happy. Because of nothing I have done, but by what God has done. I give him all glory for this.
God bless you sis,