Needing advice for christian husband wanting a divorce

[disiscat]

One and one-half years ago I married a Holy Ghost filled man. After marriage he became very controlling. On March 29th he served me with papers giving me 30 days to get out of the house. He even helped me move and cried during the process??????????!!!!!!! I'm doing my best to trust the Lord that he will reunite us, but even when we are on good terms (speaking) he doesn't call or invite me out.......NADA!!!! My concern is if the Lord does heal this marriage, how can I trust he won't do this again. Am I crazy to even pursue this. I know it was God's will for us to marry, but would God expect me to trust again? Any advice would be most helpful. Thank You!!!!

[Renee]

Disiscat, we will be praying for you definately. I have a feeling though that Admin is going to look at this thread in the aspect that you are seeking marriage counceling and they won't tolerate that at all. I just wanted to let you know in advance that this thread may end up closed/deleted because of the nature of it. We will pray for you though. God bless!

[Abigail4476]

One and one-half years ago I married a Holy Ghost filled man. After marriage he became very controlling. On March 29th he served me with papers giving me 30 days to get out of the house. He even helped me move and cried during the process??????????!!!!!!! I'm doing my best to trust the Lord that he will reunite us, but even when we are on good terms (speaking) he doesn't call or invite me out.......NADA!!!! My concern is if the Lord does heal this marriage, how can I trust he won't do this again. Am I crazy to even pursue this. I know it was God's will for us to marry, but would God expect me to trust again? Any advice would be most helpful. Thank You!!!!
Disiscat,

In this forum we can't really give specific advice or counselling on such matters--if you are facing a marital separation, you need to speak to your pastor or some other trusted source for advice on what you should do. Hopefully, your husband would be willing to seek some advice as well.

I don't believe that it is ever God's [perfect] will for a marriage to be dissolved.

Abigail
Moderator

[ddc101]

Sister there is more to the story than this.There has to be.A person just does not do this after such a short amount of time without more going on.What has been your response to him.You mentioned controlling, Is it a submission problem?There is a thread here on the Ladies section entitled A husband who is hard to submit to.Go and read that.Nothing is beyond saving.I know of some who have divorced and remarried.Surely there is something that attracted you to him.What does your pastor say? lv sis.c

[florahall]

disiscat,

This is not the right place to ask for counseling for marriage and family problem. There is a person that will react on this subject and I agree with the advice of other sister that this will not go further for this thread will be close right away. There is no place for counseling in this forum. They will not allow it. Try to read other thread and you will understand and you will know what they allow to post and what they dont want. I am sure nothing about family and marriage problem will be allowed. You are not alone to be a victim of this kind of problem. You can find other apostolic site that you can get counseling. Please e-mail me if you need more information.

I will be praying for you and join us for praying for family that has problem on their marriage. You can get advice by asking some people on their private e-mail, Dont lost hope, trust God and he is in control of everything. Dont let the
devil defeat you, the devil is a liar.

Sister Flora Hall